CASUALTIES OF WAR
A Podcast by BD & Espy
Trauma. Truth. Inappropriate Laughter.
SHOW SUMMARY
Casualties of War is a darkly funny, unfiltered podcast about surviving the battles no one trains you for—military life, trauma, addiction, grief, divorce, motherhood, identity, and rebuilding from the ground up.
Hosted by BD and Espy—two minority women, former military spouses (one a veteran, one a widowed military spouse)—the show blends raw storytelling, emotional honesty, and adult humor. Each episode feels like sitting in on the kind of conversation people only have in private: messy, vulnerable, hilarious, and deeply human.
This is not polished self-help. This is healing with edge. The show gives voice to “invisible casualties”—spouses, partners, children, and survivors whose lives were shaped by war, addiction, and trauma even if they never wore a uniform.
If you don’t laugh, you’ll cry. So we choose laughter.
MEET THE HOSTS
BD – Veteran. Former military spouse. Survivor of divorce and survival mode. Sharp, reflective, and unapologetically honest, BD brings emotional depth, insight, and perfectly timed sarcasm to conversations about healing, identity, and rebuilding a life that finally fits.
Espy – Widowed military spouse. Single mother. Survivor of addiction and loss. Warm, fearless, and deeply human, Espy speaks openly about loving someone in crisis—and learning how to live after everything changes.
WHAT MAKES THIS SHOW DIFFERENT
• Centers “invisible casualties” of war & trauma
• Emotional depth + dark & sexual humor
• Co-host chemistry built on lived experience
• Healing without toxic positivity
• Minority voices in underrepresented spaces
• Honest conversations people crave
AUDIENCE
Military spouses & veterans • Survivors of addiction & mental illness • Women starting over after loss or divorce • Minority listeners navigating identity & trauma • Parents healing while raising kids • Anyone who wants honesty—not polished self-help
FORMAT
Weekly or biweekly • 45–60 minutes • Co-hosted conversations + select guests • Remote recording available
MEDIA & BOOKING casualtiesofwarpodcast@gmail.com @CasualtiesOfWarPodcast | @BDandEspy